Introduction
Methods
Study design
Study site and sample
Data collection
Number | Main focus |
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1 | How much do you know about your wife/husband’s current dementia-related symptoms and living conditions? |
2 | During the time after your wife’s/husband’s diagnosis, did you think about your own health and what you did? |
3 | Do you think dementia can be prevented? What do you know about the risk factors for dementia? |
4 | What did your learn about dementia prevention after your wife/husband was diagnosed? |
5 | Can you name some healthy behaviors in your daily life that you think can reduce the risk of dementia? |
6 | Can you tell me some about what you usually do about these healthy behaviors? |
7 | Do you consider yourself to be living a healthy lifestyle? Which are healthy and which are unhealthy? |
8 | Have your perception of your own risk of dementia changed when your wife/husband has dementia? Did you seek support and help? |
9 | What habits and lifestyle did you change? Why? What happened along the way or is there anything you’d like to share with me? |
10 | Did these changes stick? If not, why not? |
11 | What factors do you think hinder or promote your prevention of dementia? |
12 | What kind of support do you expect? Do you have any comments or suggestions on existing support and policies? |
Data analysis
Rigour
Ethical considerations
Findings
The characteristics of the spouses and PwD
Characteristics | N | % |
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Gender | ||
Female | 14 | 70 |
Male | 6 | 30 |
Age range (years) | ||
46–55 | 4 | 20 |
56–65 | 4 | 20 |
66–75 | 10 | 50 |
76–85 | 2 | 10 |
Education | ||
Secondary education level | 12 | 60 |
Elementary school and below | 8 | 40 |
Care alonea | ||
Yes | 4 | 20 |
No | 16 | 80 |
Duration of caregiving (years) | ||
1–5 | 16 | 80 |
6–11 | 4 | 20 |
Health statusb | ||
good | 11 | 55 |
poor | 9 | 45 |
Priming-leaping-coping: becoming a “smart” caregiver
Priming: start taking care of one’s own health
“One day, he drove our grandson to school, forgot about us and went home on his own, I realized that something seemed to be wrong with him.” (Spouse 01).
“She started to talk about one thing over and over again, and then, after a couple of days, she’d bring it up again.” (Spouse 06).
“She forgot things so badly that after washing her face in the morning, she just stood there and didn’t know what to do. The doctor said that it was Alzheimer’s disease.” (Spouse 02).
“The doctor said the disease was related to many factors, so I thought I’d get checked as well because I had a poor memory since I was young.” (Spouse 10).
“I think you have to understand the disease first. It’s not just the one who got sick. I’m the primary caregiver… I’m going to be ready for my future; this disease is not like other diseases, and once you accept it, you can move on, that’s what I’ve summed up. If you try to fight it, you will always be in chaos. " (Spouse 09).
“I have hypertension and diabetes, and now I have to take care of him, so I need to be even more cautious about my health; I’m afraid that if I get sick, I won’t be able to care for him in the future. " (Spouse 13).
“I often watch that health programme on TV, especially for this disease, expert guidance on diet, balancing yin and yang, soaking feet every night, massage points, and tips like how to eat in winter to replenish qi and blood…” (Spouse 05).
Leaping: sensitive disease risk perception and control
“I’m worried that I will get dementia too, I will not be able to take care of myself, and no one looks after him.” (Spouse 19).
“Before she got sick, our family ate more salt and meat, I don’t pay attention to, I always think that now that our living conditions are better, I can eat whatever I want…” (Spouse 02).
“I think it has a lot to do with personality; he is introverted and not socializing.” (Spouse 16).
“We have a patient group with doctors, I always ask questions, and we share knowledge about dementia. I learn a lot.” (Spouse 03).
“Last time at the community activity focusing on dementia, we received a brochure; we now walk every day to ensure that we get some exercise, meat and vegetables. I sometimes take her to her sister’s home. I take my blood pressure medication regularly; so does she.” (Spouse 04).
“I quit smoking… I’m drinking less alcohol.” (Spouse 06).
“There are a lot of people in our family who are well-connected; my nephew accompanies him to his training… so I don’t have to worry about it. " (Spouse 19).
“I can talk to my friends, and it’s much easier. My sister helps me look after him. I can go out and have dinner with friends, and enjoy some time for myself.” (Spouse 05).
“Now, she is doing cognitive training, and she is a little better. It also makes things much easier for me when she does the training, as I can do things on my own… Additionally, the medicine this year is covered by health insurance, which saves a lot of money.” (Spouse 02).
Coping: adapting to a new normal and developing healthy behaviour patterns
“I like to reminisce with him about the past, which he remembers so well, or talk about when our kids were little; that’s when he was emotionally stable, and both of us were happy. (laugh)” (Spouse 01).
“I’m so good now that I can take him to the doctor independently, and I know all the effects of his medicine.” (Spouse 14).
“I now insist on going to the community centre and taking him most of the time, chatting to neighbours”. (Spouse 05)
“Since she has been ill, our family has eaten healthily; we used to know about this, we just couldn’t change it, but now that she is ill, we changed.” (Spouse 12).
“He exercises, so do I, all synchronized, better together.” (Spouse 10).
“I am so satisfied now; I feel like a better and more complete person, which helps me keep balance. I started to focus on my own feelings; I have to be healthy. I made it through.” (Spouse 03).
Struggling-trudging-silence: the process by which the self is “swallowed”
Struggling: denial and contempt
“You live a regular life and have a healthy routine; eating well and getting enough sleep are definitely good for your health, but I’m a bit doubtful that you can prevent dementia. I’m somewhat sceptical; the disease is very complex(shake head).” (Spouse 01).
“I think exercise is the most important thing to stay healthy. …… I’ve never really paid attention to that. I eat more meat and fewer vegetables.” (Spouse 02).
“We have yearly medical check-ups, and there’s nothing wrong with me except that my blood pressure and blood sugar are a bit high, as they are at this age. I don’t think I can get it for sure.” (Spouse 06).
Trudging: self-efficacy is reduced
“I’m like a wind-up machine; his condition is becoming more and more serious. I really can’t control it; you can’t treat him like a prisoner, but I feel like I’m the one becoming a prisoner.” (Spouse 19).
“There’s no way I’m leaving him behind; what would people think of our family? It’s not fair to the kids and him, so you just have to accept it, really.” (Spouse 05).
“I used to love having my friends over. I haven’t done that since he got sick. He’s unstable.” (Spouse 03).
“It’s been almost 50 years-two people who have overcome so many stumbles together, only to be defeated by this disease. The relationship is gone, and I’m definitely a bit depressed. (bang on the desk)” (Spouse 04).
“It’s only with the closest people that he shows his temper; he’s always polite to others, when I tell people about that terrible state he’s in at home, they don’t believe, no one believes me, that’s the hardest part of it. (sigh)” (Spouse 01).
“You can’t predict the pattern of good days and bad days. His relatives would say I didn’t take good care of him (cry).” (Spouse 07).
Silence: defeat in the face of struggle
“I had to think about everything; I had never done these things before, and I felt like my brain was stuck, so I just gave up and resigned myself to it.” (Spouse 17).