Background
Methods
Protocol development
Sample
Data collection and analysis
Category | Themes | Codes |
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Nurse role and training | Direct care of mother, baby | Assessment Cord and circumcision care Diapering, bathing, swaddling Feeding Post-operative care |
Parent education | Mother relays info to father Repeat information for father Teach whomever is present Wait for father to arrive | |
Focus on mothers | Training focuses on mothers Education directed to mothers | |
Want, need additional training | Communication Fathers’ interests, concerns Providing education How to engage fathers | |
Interactions with fathers | Father presence or absence at hospital | Home with other children Incarcerated Not involved with the mother Out of country Transportation issues Work schedule, lack of leave |
Ways to engage fathers | Answer his questions Ask about his thoughts, feelings Demonstrate, show him things Directly acknowledge him Don’t push too hard Educate and inform him Encourage him to ask questions Tell him he needs to learn, do things | |
Perceptions of fathers’ level of engagement | Level of engagement | As engaged as mothers Less engaged than mothers |
Influences on level of involvement | Depends on the person First-time fathers more engaged Cultural influences | |
Barriers to involvement | Afraid to touch or handle the baby Feels left out, ignored Lack of knowledge, confidence Maternal gatekeeping | |
Attitudes toward father involvement | Benefits of father involvement | Benefits to baby Benefits to mother Benefits to family |
Father role | Equal partner with mother Secondary caregiver |
Results
Nurse role and training
Interactions with fathers
Code | Examples |
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Answer/elicit fathers’ questions (n = 4) | “The ones that are interested stand around watching what you do, and I’ll answer questions” |
“They are receiving so much information and are so stressed because the baby is in serious condition, but we encourage them to ask questions.” | |
Explain things to, inform him (n = 10) | “They kind of come hover and ask, ‘Why are you doing that?’ and ‘What’s that for?’ I’ll let them stand and watch and explain why they do that.” |
“At discharge, we bring out … extra information on postpartum depression, we go over it with them, like instructions on feeding, car seats, stuff for taking the baby home.” | |
Directly acknowledge him (n = 8) | “If you want to and are motivated to, you can make eye contact, but it requires making effort.” |
“If you get dads on the first day, acknowledge them and communicate expectations for them both, they will get involved.” | |
Demonstrate, show him how to do things (n = 5) | “If they are awake I try to talk to him to see what he knows about diapers, feeding. I’ll say, ‘Let’s try while I’m here so I can give you some pointers’.” |
“Telling them, ‘Come change this diaper’ can be off-putting. ‘Come help me change this diaper, I’ll show you what to do’ is more useful.” | |
Suggest ways he can help (n = 10) | “I feel out the situation to see what his involvement is, and I’ll say, ‘Hey, Dad, do you want to help out with the bath?” |
“That’s when we address dads directly instead of mom, like say ‘Mom’s been changing the diaper, do you want to come do it?” | |
Offer encouragement, positive feedback (n = 3) | “I’ll have dad help wash the baby… and I give him positive feedback for the first bath. Try to get them as involved as possible.” |
“You have to take their hand, and in a gentle, encouraging way get them to do things.” | |
Ask about his thoughts, feelings (n = 3) | “I try to get them to open up and discuss their feelings and stress, explain what’s happening.” |
“When you’re having a conversation with both parents say ‘Dad, what do you think?’ asking him directly instead of just letting mom answer.” | |
Tell him he needs to learn, do things (n = 4) | “I will try to get them to change diapers and I’ll say, ‘This is your baby, this baby is not coming home with me.’” |
“If it’s something really important, especially outpatient, I might say, ‘Hey dad, you really need to pay attention to this.’” |
All participants indicated ways in which they try to involve fathers but noted that they do not push the issue if a father seems uninterested or unmotivated. Several times, they indicated that when engaging with fathers they are careful not to “pressure them.” The nurses mentioned “feeling out” fathers’ level of interest and attempting to involve them without imposing on personal, family or cultural values (see Table 2 for examples).Especially as a bedside nurse you can tell how helpful they’re going to be. If they seem interested, I’ll include them more. If they don’t seem to be interested, I’ll ask but I don’t make them help…. Sometimes you interact more with them because they act like they are going to be more helpful.
Perceptions of fathers’ level of involvement
Attitudes and beliefs regarding father involvement
Code | Examples |
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Father as equal partner (n = 6) | “[Fathers] are one of the parents and it shouldn’t just be mom…The father is just as important in the family relationship.” |
“It takes a village. They dynamics of what a mom does versus a dad, it’s different… [Children] need the support of both parents.” | |
“I treat dad just like I treat mom, because they are both caregivers.” | |
“Yes, because he’s a caregiver too. Just because mama gave birth, it’s his responsibility as much as hers.” | |
Father as secondary caregiver (n = 13) | “[Fathers can] seek opportunities to get involved, like if the baby starts crying when mom is in the shower, what can he do.” |
“I always say it’s important to help your wife as much as possible, because taking care of a baby is hard...” | |
“He can’t breastfeed, but mom can do that, and dads do diapering and stuff… [to] relieve mom of her duties.” | |
“Mom may feel more at ease, because if she has to go back to work, then dad can stay home with the baby. It’s important for mom to know she’s supported by dad and he knows what he’s doing in her absence.” |