Demographic characteristics of the main Sample
The majority of the women, 249 (92.9%) were between <19-39 years old (Table
1). The men were significantly older than the women with mean age of 34.6 ± 6.3 versus 28.9 ± 4.1 for women (p < 0.05). In both men and women the average duration of infertility was approximately 4 years although slightly higher in men. Similarly, primary infertility occurred in 176 (65.7%) of the women and 204 (76.1%) of the men compared with 92 (34.3%) and 64 (23.9%) for secondary infertility. Understandably, indigenous Kuwaitis made up the majority of the study subject for both genders. All respondents had some form of formal education, with 91% of men and 92% of women respectively having secondary school education and about 25-30% of both couples having university education. Significantly more men were smokers than women (44% versus 8%, p < 0.001).
Table 1
Characteristics of the survey participants
Age in years:
| | | | | |
<19
| 4 | 2 | 0 | 0 | 0.124* |
20-29
| 126 | 47 | 5 | 1.90 | 0.001* |
30-39
| 123 | 45 | 118 | 44 | 0.728 |
40-49
| 15 | 5.6 | 126 | 47 | 0.001* |
>50
| 0 | 0 | 19 | 7.10 | 0.001* |
Ethnic Groups | | | | | |
Kuwaitis | 182 | 67.9 | 178 | 66.4 | 0.783 |
Asians | 42 | 15.7 | 40 | 14.9 | 0.905 |
Other Arabs | 39 | 14.60 | 48 | 17.9 | 0.349* |
Others | 5 | 1.9 | 2 | 0.80 | 0.045* |
Education: | | | | | |
Primary School | 21 | 7.8 | 24 | 8.9 | 0.755 |
Secondary School | 162 | 60.50 | 176 | 65.7 | 0.245* |
University/College | 85 | 31.7 | 68 | 25.4 | 0.126* |
Smoking: | | | | | |
Heavy smoker: >20 cigarettes/day | 15 | 5.6 | 52 | 19.4 | 0.001* |
Light smoker <20 cigarettes/day | 6 | 2.20 | 65 | 24.3 | 0.001* |
Duration of Infertility in years: | | | | | |
<1 | 2 | 0.80 | 2 | 0.80 | 1.376 |
1-2 | 158 | 59 | 144 | 53.7 | 0.258* |
3-4 | 48 | 17.9 | 52 | 19.4 | .739 |
5-6 | 27 | 10.10 | 33 | 12.3 | 0.493* |
7-8 | 23 | 8.6 | 23 | 8.6 | 1 |
>8 | 10 | 3.7 | 14 | 5.2 | 0.532 |
Secondary | 92 | 32.3 | 64 | 23.9 | 0.010*? |
The main causes of infertility in both men and women are shown in Table
2. Among the men, azoospermia was significantly associated with reduced libido (p < 0.01) and depression (p < 0.01).
Table 2
Association between causes of infertility and emotional reactions
Women | N = 268 | | 34 | 12.7 | 4 | 5.2 | 0.001* |
Ovarian dysfunction | 174 | 64.9 | 24 | 13.8 | 7 | 4.9 | 0.002* |
Tubal blockage | 16 | 6 | 2 | 12.5 | 1 | 4 | 1 |
Endometriosis | 15 | 5.6 | 1 | 6.7 | 2 | 13.3 | 1 |
Uterine factor | 6 | 2.2 | 0 | 0 | 1 | 1.6 | 1 |
No female factor | 57 | 21.3 | 7 | 12.3 | 3 | 5.3 | 0.321* |
Men | N = 268 | | 16 | 6 | 40 | 14.9 | 0.001* |
Sperm Count: | | | | | | | |
Normozoospermia | 164 | 61.2 | 8 | 4.9 | 17 | 10.4 | 0.045* |
Oligozoospermia | 80 | 29.9 | 6 | 7.5 | 8 | 10 | 0.780 |
Azoospermia | 24 | 8.9 | 2 | 8.3 | 15 | 62.5 | 0.002* |
Motility: | | | | | | | |
Normal | 188 | 70.2 | 11 | 5.8 | 29 | 15.4 | 0.004* |
Asthenozoospermia | 80 | 29.8 | 5 | 6.3 | 11 | 13.8 | 0.186* |
Morphology: | | | | | | | |
Normal morphology | 237 | 88.4 | 13 | 5.5 | 32 | 13.5 | 0.005* |
Teratozoospermia | 31 | 11.6 | 3 | 9.7 | 8 | 25.8 | 0.182* |
Immunological: | | | | | | | |
No antisperm antibodies | 220 | 82.1 | 14 | 6.4 | 34 | 14.6 | 0.004* |
Antisperm antibodies | 48 | 17 | 2 | 4.2 | 8 | 16.7 | 0.091* |
Heavy smoking (i.e. more than 20 cigarettes per day) was significantly associated with anxiety (p < 0.01). Infertility of 1-2 years was significantly associated with anxiety among both the men (p < 0.05) and the women (p < 0.01) and premature ejaculation in the men (p < 0.05).
In Table
3, the association between psychosexual problems and emotional reactions of couples to infertility was analyzed. Indicators identified for the analysis were anxiety, depression, reduced libido and premature ejaculation. Women were more prone to anxiety than men (p < 0.01). Conversely, the men tended to have more depression (p < 0.01). There was significant association between duration of infertility of five years and more with loss of libido (p < 0.01) and depression among the men (p < 0.05).
Table 3
Association between psychosexual problems and emotional reactions of both men and women to infertility
Anxiety | 34 | 12.7 | 16 | 6.0 | 0.012* |
Depression | 14 | 5.2 | 40 | 14.9 | 0.001* |
Anxiety + Depression | 10 | 3.7 | 9 | 3.4 | 1 |
Reduced libido | 18 | 6.7 | 80 | 29.9 | 0.001* |
Anxiety + Reduced libido | 5 | 1.9 | 11 | 4.1 | 0.001* |
Depression + Reduced libido | 4 | 1.5 | 9 | 3.4 | 0.261* |
Premature ejaculation | - | - | 40 | 14.9 | - |
Weak/impaired ejaculation | - | - | 14 | 5.2 | - |
Impotence: | - | - | 21 | 7.9 | - |
Transient | - | - | 13 | 4.9 | - |
Persistent | - | - | 8 | 3.0 | - |
Menstrual Problems: | 77 | 28.7 | - | - | - |
Oligomenorrhea | 48 | 17.9 | - | - | - |
Menorrhagia | 17 | 6.3 | - | - | - |
Metrorrhagia | 12 | 4.5 | - | - | - |
The most common problem was reduced libido in 29.9% of the men and 6.7% of women (p < 0.01). However, of the 80 men initially volunteering information about reduced libido, only 17% attributed it to the problem of infertility. Although more women than men had anxiety reaction, more men than women had anxiety plus reduced libido and depression plus reduced libido (p < 0.05). Premature ejaculation occurred in 14.9% of the men ranging from 6 months to 5 years but only 15% attributed it to their infertility. Impotence was found in 7.9% of the men. However, more than half the men (4.9%) had transient or occasional impotence only, while impotence was persistent in 8 men (3.0%). Weak/impaired ejaculation occurred in 5.2% of men without a previous history of diabetes mellitus. In five men, there was non-consummation of the marriage of between 2 to 5 years. Approximately 29% of the women had severe menstrual problems in form of Oligomenorrhea, Menorrhagia and Metrorrhagia. There was a strong association between menstrual disorders; Oligomenorrhea and anxiety (p < 0.01), and between Menorrhagia and depression (p < 0.05).
Emotional reactions before and during infertility treatment
The 4 sub topics that emerged included: the female clients' reactions, their husbands'/partners' reactions, their family reactions and their coping strategies before they became pregnant.
The reactions of the women before they became pregnant included anxiety, depression, anger, feeling devastated, powerlessness, sense of failure and different degrees of frustration including overwhelming frustration. Below are some quotes expressing their frustrations before they became pregnant:
'It wasn't a nice feeling at all, each month when I was expecting to get pregnant and I start menstruating, I have "big headache", wondering why it should come and for how long I will have to cope with pressure from our families'.
(Muneera, 33 yrs old with 5 years of primary infertility)
'When I crossed the 5 years period I set for myself, my patience ran out. I remember one day when my period came, I was very frustrated and fully upset, I went to consult my doctor and he tried to console me by asking me to be patient because all my test results were normal. I couldn't take it any longer, oops !!!, I was high that day and I lost it, I told him not to talk to me about patience, I knew all about patience and I can define patience better than the Oxford dictionary, I was overwhelmed with frustration, I went home and just cried uncontrollably" (Mary, 37 years old with 12 years of primary infertility).
In both quotations above, participants mentioned their frustration at the onset of their menstruation, which was an indication that they were not pregnant. Both participants were above 30 years with more than 5 years of primary infertility. Although the younger participants less than 30 years old or with fewer than 3 years of infertility did not express such devastation, they were also frustrated. Below is a quotation from a 27 year old participant and another from a participant with fewer than 3 years of infertility:
'I was very upset and frustrated, really, I knew it was my problem and I wanted to get help quickly'.
(Nancy, 27 years old, with 1 year of primary infertility)
'I was anxious but I was aware of my problems and wanted it fixed as soon as possible'.
(Alia, 32 years old with 2 years of primary infertility).
'I felt depressed and had a sense of failure. My husband was partly the cause of our fertility failure, but he appeared to be ok, not looking stressed'.
(Kitty, 38 years old with 7 years primary infertility).
It would appear that when reproductive failure is as a result of combined male and female factors, the woman is also affected emotionally even when her spouse appears not bothered.
Some participants with female factor infertility but with very supportive spouses coped relatively well, like in the case of Rachael:
'The time I felt useless. Knowing that I cannot give child to my husband made me feel so bad, and I thought that something was missing on my part'. 'My husband was ok, and he said he will not leave me if I cannot give him a baby'.
(Rachael, 32 years with 3 years primary infertility).
The woman's age appears to be a factor in their emotional reaction because they were all aware of their biological clock and were in a hurry to get a baby before it became too late. The other factor that might have been of concern to some of the women is the fear of losing their spouses to another woman who may be able to prove their fertility by getting pregnant.
Two of the participants had secondary infertility, but the condition of their child affected the couples' reactions. Whereas, Pamela, 36 years old with 3 years secondary infertility and a normal child did not appear to be under great pressure before she got pregnant. Sara, 35 years old with 8 1/2 years of secondary infertility and a brain damaged child, appeared to be extremely frustrated before she finally got pregnant. She said:
'I felt depressed and devastated because my only son had brain damage at birth, he is now 8 1/2 years'. When asked about her husband's reaction she said: 'After the 5
th
failed IVF, my husband suffered a heart attack because of the tension, now he suffers from hypertension and diabetes'.
Husbands'/partners' and family reactions
The only male participant said:
'I felt sad, because generally speaking, when couples are married, until they have children, my culture does not consider their marriage successful. This is bad because it is God that gives children and not the couple and the basis of marriage is supposed to be love'. (Ahmed)
Alia said: 'My husband was very upset and embarrassed especially when some- one accused him of being lazy and not able to get me pregnant, he then insisted that we seek medical help'.
The above quotations illustrate the amount of pressure that is sometimes endured by infertile men, whether or not the reproductive failure was entirely their fault or that of their wives.
Family reactions also varied and in some cases caused added frustration.
'The expectations of our parents to have grand children were very high and this led to constant pressure on us' (Ahmed & Muneera).
'His family was not worried and they were not pressurizing us, but they were suggesting many things including special prayers. My parents were concerned and after 9 years my mother arranged for me to adopt a child'. (Mary).
Clients' perception of nurses' roles during their infertility treatment
The second major theme was clients' perception of nurses' roles during their fertility treatment.
The generally expressed view was that nurses have a role in infertility treatment. They all mentioned the following roles: monitoring their vital signs and weight, administering oral medications and injections, being with the doctors during consultations and assisting in physical examinations, consoling and encouraging them. The term 'nurses encouraged them', had different connotations including: reassuring, communicating, counseling and educating them. Nurses were also said to prepare them for investigations; some mentioned collecting samples. Specifically with clients who attended the IVF units, they reported that the nurses, in addition to the roles already mentioned, performed additional roles which included: clarifying their doctors' instructions regarding their treatment options, assisting the doctor during embryo transfer and staying with them for one hour following embryo transfer. During this period they said the nurses provided them with health teachings regarding the restrictions they must observe to ensure successful treatment. The following were quotes from some of the clients:
'This particular nurse was always very supportive, she helps me onto the couch, she holds my hand during the procedures and makes me relax during some rather embarrassing procedures'. (Kitty)
'Sometimes during some examinations when I have to lie on the couch, the nurse helps me and while with me she stokes my hair, which makes me feel relax, and shows that she cares. When giving me injections, she asks me questions and as I attempt to answer her questions, my mind gets diverted from the pain of the injection, and I hardly feel the pain of injection being given'. (Zaina)
'The nurses helped with the injections and even though I was feeling sad and frustrated, the nurse helped me by consoling me'. (Abeer).
'During doctor's examination, the nurses helped me a lot because I was scared and really shy, I didn't know what to do, and they helped me by their presence to be examined without fear'. (Nancy)
The above quotations illustrated how the participants perceived the presence of the nurse as relaxing and comforting during their treatment sessions.